Life’s full of attractions and there’s much to take in. But: Sex is overestimated, is being abused, is often used as a pretext to end a relationship – if the sexual energy ended. This is a cheap excuse for people who doesn’t know much about reasons in general. It reminds me on those who know nothing or less than a few about the things they are talking about.
Sex is not only having an orgasm, is not only having anal sex, is not only to masturbate. Sex is satisfying, stands for fun. Physical sex – in regular – is a time-limited situation. Usually we want repetition if it was good. As we like it always if something is, tastes or feels good. But we all love sex without expectations – except in terms of mastery and domination, I guess – and we don’t want routine. Ever had anonymous gay sex with someone you met online? And to me it seems like we don’t want to be limited in terms of sexual freedom. Or in other words: Could you imagine you could limit another persons sexual habits? In many countries they do believe it.
Sex is limited by society’s moral, by religion or by politicians, or both and more often than that by ourselves. Our sexual freedom is the result of our education, culture, tradition or the illusions of the (hollywood-) films we’ve seen or the literature we ‘ve read in our lives. What’s about gay fetish? Free your mind!
Is sex equal to sexual charisma and is sexual charisma less time-limited than physical sex? What is the enemy of sexual fulfillment? Is sex always funny? Perhaps not always and in particular not for those who present only an object to others, who are suffer … Have you ever played a sexual object, role, games … Sex is like a private room where nobody comes in you don’t want to and where you can be who ever you want. I think we as a human being need that. Animals need that to.
Sex is what we thinking about. Sex doesn’t mean love. Does it? Some might argue the opposite. Love doesn’t need sex. But we love to reproduce an amount of nonsense from silly people who themselves never consider before opening their mouth and talking so called wisdom about the meaning of love or sex.
Some might say this is nonsense. If you believe in things you don’t understand than you suffer (Stevie Wonder). Sex is sometimes only physical attraction, sometime a fantasy in our minds. Sex sometimes feels good and sometimes the same sex can cause bad feelings.
If you own the ability to be in the moment while having sex, if you can drop yourself, letting go your expectations, dedicating or giving yourself to another, maybe than we are close to … ourselves. Good sex, heterosexual as homosexual sex means being close to yourself. It’s up to you. And if you don’t have that kind of so called ability, than you should learn how to get it.